Is 'Bob' his actual name?

No, obviously it's Robert, but no one has ever called him that and I wasn't about to pick a fight over formalities at stage one of wedding planning. There are bigger fish to fry.

Wait, when did you get engaged?

We didn't. At least, not formally. But Bob did gift my father a goat to make things official.

When is the RSVP deadline?

We ask that you kindly RSVP by September 1, 2026, at the latest.

What should I wear?

The dress codes for our wedding are Formal or Cocktail attire - this is a pretty good guide.

What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

Help us get the party started as scheduled! Please arrive by 3:30 pm to make sure everyone is seated on time.

Can I bring a plus one?

We've aimed to include all the significant others within our network, but if we've missed your partner, please do reach out and we will do our best to accommodate!

Are kids welcome?

While we love your little ones, with the exception of immediate family, our wedding will be an adults-only event so that everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time so you can celebrate with us.

Burning question? Please reach out!

stephplusbob@gmail.com